This is the base definition of PMS/PMDD as from Women’s Health.Gov

[This is the definition and information directly from womenshealth.com - This is a great base to see if it feels like how you feel.

What is PMS?

PMS is a combination of physical and emotional symptoms that many women get after ovulation and before the start of their menstrual period. Researchers think that PMS happens in the days after ovulation because estrogen and progesterone levels begin falling dramatically if you are not pregnant. PMS symptoms go away within a few days after a woman’s period starts as hormone levels begin rising again.

Some women get their periods without any signs of PMS or only very mild symptoms. For others, PMS symptoms may be so severe that it makes it hard to do everyday activities like go to work or school. Severe PMS symptoms may be a sign of premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). PMS goes away when you no longer get a period, such as after menopause. After pregnancy, PMS might come back, but you might have different PMS symptoms. is a condition similar to PMS that also happens in the week or two before your period starts as hormone levels begin to fall after ovulation. PMDD causes more severe symptoms than PMS, including severe depression, irritability, and tension. PMDD affects up to 5% of women of childbearing age. Many women with PMDD may also have anxiety or depression.

What are the symptoms of PMS?

PMS symptoms are different for every woman. You may get physical symptoms, such as bloating or gassiness, or emotional symptoms, such as sadness, or both. Your symptoms may also change throughout your life.

Physical symptoms of PMS can include:12

  • Swollen or tender breasts

  • Constipation or diarrhea

  • Bloating or a gassy feeling

  • Cramping

  • Headache or backache

  • Clumsiness

  • Lower tolerance for noise or light

Emotional or mental symptoms of PMS include:

  • Irritability or hostile behavior

  • Feeling tired

  • Sleep problems (sleeping too much or too little)

  • Appetite changes or food cravings

  • Trouble with concentration or memory

  • Tension or anxiety

  • Depression, feelings of sadness, or crying spells

  • Mood swings

  • Less interest in sex

    What is PMDD?

    PMDD is a condition similar to PMS that also happens in the week or two before your period starts as hormone levels begin to fall after ovulation. PMDD causes more severe symptoms than PMS, including severe depression, irritability, and tension.

    Symptoms of PMDD include:

  • Lasting irritability or anger that may affect other people

  • Feelings of sadness or despair, or even thoughts of suicide

  • Feelings of tension or anxiety

  • Panic attacks

  • Mood swings or crying often

  • Lack of interest in daily activities and relationships

  • Trouble thinking or focusing

  • Tiredness or low energy

  • Food cravings or binge eating

  • Trouble sleeping

  • Feeling out of control

  • Physical symptoms, such as cramps, bloating, breast tenderness, headaches, and joint or muscle pain


    Researchers do not know for sure what causes PMDD or PMS. Hormonal changes throughout the menstrual cycle may play a role. A brain chemical called serotonin may also play a role in PMDD. Serotonin levels change throughout the menstrual cycle. Some women may be more sensitive to these changes.

    Treatments for PMDD include:

    • Antidepressants called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). SSRIs change serotonin levels in the brain. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approved three SSRIs to treat PMDD:4

    • Birth control pills. The FDA has approved a birth control pill containing drospirenone (droh-SPIR-uh-nohn) and ethinyl estradiol (ETH-uh-nil es-truh-DEYE-ohl), to treat PMDD.

    • Over-the-counter pain relievers may help relieve physical symptoms, such as cramps, joint pain, headaches, backaches, and breast tenderness. These include:

    • Stress management, such as relaxation techniques and spending time on activities you enjoy

    Making healthy changes, such as eating a healthy combination of foods across the food groups, cutting back on salty and sugary foods, and getting more physical activity, may also help relieve some PMDD symptoms. But PMDD can be serious enough that some women should go to a doctor or nurse to discuss treatment options.

    If you are thinking of hurting yourself or others, call 911 right away.

All of the above is what I learned during the first part of my journey to understanding what was going on. why every time I felt like I had it together, I always fell apart….ONCE i learned about this, the pieces started making sense.

But I still knew there was more. And I was right.